Dec 30, 2020

Is your husband more interested in video games, work, or sports than you?

Do you feel like he’s checked-out? Has he stopped caring about your marriage?

Are you trying to think of ways to convince him to go to therapy?

Do you wonder why he doesn’t seem to care about your happiness or your marriage?

Do you ever feel...

Dec 22, 2020

What’s the most productive day you’ve had in recent memory?

Do you remember it?

You woke up, and just SLAYED your to-do list…

You got into a rhythm, your energy was high, and everything was just clicking…

I had a day like that a few weeks ago.

Folded the laundry.

Did the dishes.

Mopped the floor.

Took care of...

Dec 16, 2020

Most people’s marriages get worse over time.

They argue more.

They laugh less.

They are more easily annoyed with each other.

Their sex life suffers.

And they gradually reach a point of status-quo.

They know that their marriage isn’t great, but it’s comfortable and predictable enough that they refuse to upset...

Dec 8, 2020

About once a week I get a message from someone asking what to do about porn...

Here's how it usually plays out. (Not always... but usually.)

Husband secretly watches porn.

He's been doing it off-and-on for a while. Often times it's when he's feeling lonely, stressed, overwhelmed, or depressed...

He hates himself for it...

Dec 1, 2020

I’ve been listening to a 35-hour lecture series called “Maps of Meaning” by Dr. Jordan Peterson, an author and psychology professor.

The lectures are an exploration of the psychological principles and ideas that give meaning to life.

A few weeks ago I was driving home from the hardware store in a rain storm with a...